It is no secret: Ending a marriage is difficult.Personally, one tool I employ is to tap into empathy and patience to help my clients deal with the problems they have in their divorces. This approach is often helpful when working out how to structure the good times — and summer vacations are certainly a good example.Remember that this is probably also the first time your client must deal with the emotional and practical effects of giving the kids up for the summer, switching vacation years or alternating weeks and …